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Well, sometimes you might just let them do the thing, you can't actually force your family members to make the "right decisions", that'll just be tyranny and abuse. What you can do is try to explain, casually, how they might be wrong and what the consequences could be. Don't try to argue with them, as you'll lose immediately, I hope you know that already. If they don't want to listen to you, that's obviously not your problem, but at least you've tried to prevent "fucking their life up". Basically, when they don't want to listen to you, they're choosing to not rely on your wisdom and experience, and want to do stuff on their own, no matter how bad the things could end up. What can you do? Only say how and where they might be wrong, just explain one time and that will be it. Maybe something will click in their head and they will listen to you. But selfishness and ignorance often wins, so be ready.
Don't take it too close to your heart, sometimes we just need to let them make their mistakes to gain their own experience, no matter how old they are. And sometimes, it might be even for the better.
